No.17 6 tips how to speak so that people want to listen

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Hello everyone~
I’m Chan who ate coconuts for the first time in a long time ! Have you ever tried coconuts? It was my first time eating it in the Philippines, but when coconut was sold my local area, the taste wasn’t different so much. If you haven’t tried coconuts before, try it if you have a chance! Personally, I prefer flesh to juice. ・∇・)

This time, it’s about how to get people to listen to you ! I think there are a lot of things that you can’t be listened. The secret to solving it is in this article. There are a lot of practical and immediate effects, and the presenter’s English is fast, but it’s easy to get used to hearing, easy to understand, and the content structure is simple, so please be assured that you will be able to understand it if you refer to this article. ( ´ ▽ ` )

So we are going to learn English from the Julian Treasure presentation with the title “How to speak so that people want to listen” from TED!

 

  1. Contents
    1. Reasons why someone doesn’t listen to your speaking : Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking
      1. Gossip
      2. Judging
      3. Negativity
      4. Complaining
      5. Excuses
      6. Embroidery and Exaggeration
      7. Dogmatism
    2. HAIL : to greet or acclaim enthusiastically
      1. Honesty / be clear and straight : Be honest and clear
      2. Authenticity / be yourself : Be as you are
      3. Integrity / be your word : Be yourself and do what you said and be yourself to be trusted
      4. Love / wish them well: love for everyone’s happiness, not romantic. There are two reasons for love.
        1. Absolute honesty isn’t everything. For example, “Wow, you look terrible this morning.” you don’t need this honesty.
        2. If you soften it with love, honesty will be wonderful. And if you really wish someone’s happiness, it will be difficult to criticize them. The way you communicate along with the content is important.
    3. 6 tips to getting people to listen to
      1. Register
      2. Timbre
      3. Prosody
      4. Pace
      5. Pitch
      6. Volume
    4. These voices can be acquired through training.
    5. 6 Vocal Warm Ups (please refer to video)
      1. Lift one’s arms to breathe deeply and exhale : ahhh
      2. Vibrate lips : Ba, Ba, Ba,
      3. Move your tongue: La with exaggerated “L” la, la, la,. Next, “R” Rrrr, like rolling tongue.
      4. Siren sounds : Start with “wee” and end with “u”. “Wee” is high and “O” is low.
    6. Ideas worth spreading through sounds
  2. summary
    1. Reasons why someone doesn’t listen to your speaking / Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking : Why do you run into situations where you can’t be heard your words? That’s because we don’t have the necessary habits to have our stories heard, and we’re in vicious circles. It is called Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking, and the seven are as follows.
      1. Gossip : Speak ill of those who are not there. Five minutes after hearing the bad word, the one who was saying the bad word speaks of us, and the bad rumors and the bad words create vicious circles.
      2. Judging : To be the target of criticism and to be ruined. When people are criticized negatively, it makes them uncomfortable to listen to what you say.
      3. Negativity : Turn backward. If the whole thing is negative about conversation, then communication won’t continue.
      4. Complaining : Complaints only spread misfortunes and never bring warmth or light to the world.
      5. Excuses : Many people only pass on the buck. They blame others and don’t take responsibility for their actions. They can’t bear to listen to such a person.
      6. Embroidery and Exaggeration : This sometimes degrades words. It’s like Oucking owesome” or “he is Osshole”. Naturally, this exaggeration leads to lies, and eventually, if it’s all lies, nobody listens.
      7. Dogmatism : This is a mix of facts and opinions. If you mix these two up, everyone won’t hear anything. Even if someone claims one’s opinion as if it were true, it’s not something everyone could hear.
    2. HAIL : There are four strong foundations on which we should stand in order to empower our story and change the world, and four acronyms will be “HAIL”. The meaning is as follows.
      1. Honesty / be clear and straight : Be honest and clear
      2. Authenticity / be yourself : Be as you are
      3. Integrity / be your word : Be yourself and do what you said and be yourself to be trusted
      4. Love / wish them well: love for everyone’s happiness, not romantic. There are two reasons for love.
        1. Absolute honesty isn’t everything. For example, “Wow, you look terrible this morning.” you don’t need this honesty.
        2. If you soften it with love, honesty will be wonderful. And if you really wish someone’s happiness, it will be difficult to criticize them. The way you communicate along with the content is important.
    3. 6 tips to getting people to listen to
      1. Register : Changing your voice position will change your impression significantly. You can change where you speak from your nose, throat and chest, but especially from your chest, your voice becomes low and your words become heavy, deep and authoritative.
      2. Timbre : The tone is the texture of your voice. According to one study, people prefer rich, smooth, and warm voices like hot chocolate.
      3. Prosody : Meta-language that adds meaning to intonation and words, and that’s the real pleasure of conversation. everyone dosen’t feel inclined to hear when spoken in monotone rhythm.
      4. Pace : Speaking fast feels like very excited. On the other hand, if you speak slowly, you can emphasize it. Ultimately, it’s a well-known silence. There is so much power in silence that you don’t have to rush to fill in between.
      5. Pitch : Emotional highs are expressed in tones and tempo, but in fact, tones alone are possible and the same sentence that changes tones has slightly different meanings.
      6. Volume : Your volume can make your voice feel excited. Or you can get attention by speaking very quietly. Some people talk too loud, but let’s avoid it.It’s called “sobcasting” and it’s just that they’re insensitive to their own sounds.
    4. These voices can be acquired through training. : You will be able to gain the voice through training. Let’s find a voice trainer. You can improve your voice quality by breathing, posture and practice. These things can also be useful when you communicate something important, such as when you’re talking on stage, or when you’re proposing to marry, when you’re negotiating a pay raise or making a speech at a wedding.
    5. 6 Vocal Warm Ups (Please refer to video)
      1. Lift one’s arms to breathe deeply and exhale : ahhh
      2. Vibrate lips : Ba, Ba, Ba,
      3. Move your tongue: La with exaggerated “L” la, la, la,. Next, “R” Rrrr, like rolling tongue.
      4. Siren sounds : Start with “wee” and end with “u”. “Wee” is high and “O” is low.
    6. Ideas worth spreading through sound : If we consciously create sound, consciously accept it, and design every environment consciously, sound sounds beautifully in the world, and mutual understanding will be a matter of course. And then we get ideas worth spreading.
  3. In the end

Contents

Reasons why someone doesn’t listen to your speaking : Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking

The influence of words is enormous. Not only to mention disliking people and whispering love in one word, but also to signal the shooting of missiles and to trigger war. So, why do you run into a lot of situations where you can’t be heard those words? That’s because we don’t have the necessary habits to have our stories heard, and we’re in a vicious circle. The vicious circle is what presenter Julian Treasure calls Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking. The seven of them are as follows.

 

Gossip

It’s about saying bad things about people who aren’t there. Five minutes after hearing the bad word, the one who spoke ill of us speaks ill of us, and the bad rumor and the bad word create vicious circles.

 

Judging

You’re the object of criticism and you’re ruined. If you get negative criticism, it makes them uncomfortable to listen to.

 

Negativity

It’s about turning backwards. If the whole thing is negative about conversation, then communication won’t continue.

 

Complaining

It’s a British national art, but it’s also a national sport. They complain about everything, such as the weather, sports and politics. But grievances only spread misfortunes, and do not bring warmth or light to the world.

 

Excuses

There are a lot of people who always pass the buck. They blame others and don’t take responsibility for their actions. They can’t bear to listen to such a person.

 

Embroidery and Exaggeration

This sometimes degrades the language. It’s like “Oucking owesome” or “he is Osshole”. Of course, this exaggeration leads to lies. Lies are the only thing that ever happens – no one will listen.

 

Dogmatism

This is to confuse facts with opinions. If you mix these two up, they won’t hear anything. It’s not possible to hear someone’s opinion as if it were true.

That is the reasons why you fall Into vicious curlulars . But is it possible to do it positively? The answer is as follows.

 

HAIL : to greet or acclaim enthusiastically

There are four strong foundations on which we must stand to empower our story and change the world. If you take four acronyms, it becomes a certain word, which is “HAIL.”The meaning is as follows.

 

Honesty / be clear and straight : Be honest and clear

Authenticity / be yourself : Be as you are

Integrity / be your word : Be yourself and do what you said and be yourself to be trusted

Love / wish them well: love for everyone’s happiness, not romantic. There are two reasons for love.

Absolute honesty isn’t everything. For example, “Wow, you look terrible this morning.” you don’t need this honesty.
If you soften it with love, honesty will be wonderful. And if you really wish someone’s happiness, it will be difficult to criticize them. The way you communicate along with the content is important.

 

6 tips to getting people to listen to

Register

By changing the place where you speak, your impression changes a lot. You can change where you speak from your nose, throat and chest, but especially from your chest, your voice becomes low and your words become heavy, deep and authoritative.

 

Timbre

The tone of the voice is the texture of the voice. According to one study, people prefer rich, smooth, and warm voices like hot chocolate.

 

Prosody

It’s a metalanguage that adds meaning to intonation and words, and that’s the real beauty of conversation. They don’t feel inclined to hear when spoken in monotone rhythm.

 

Pace

Fast speaking feels like very excited. On the other hand, if you speak slowly, you can emphasize it. Ultimately, it’s a well-known silence. There is so much power in silence that you don’t have to rush to fill in between.

 

Pitch

Emotional excitement is expressed in tones and tempo, but in fact it is possible only in tones, and the same sentence that changes tones has a slightly different meaning.

 

Volume

You can feel excited by the volume of your voice. Or you can get attention by speaking very quietly. Some people talk too loud, but let’s avoid it. It’s called “sodcasting” and it’s just that they’re insensitive to their own sounds.

 

These voices can be acquired through training.

You will be able to gain the voice through training. Let’s find a voice trainer. You can improve your voice quality by breathing, posture and practice. And these things can help you communicate something important. Maybe it’s when you’re talking on stage, or when you’re proposing a marriage, you’re talking about a pay raise or making a speech at a wedding. When it comes to anything, remember this secret and check the engine you’re going to use. The engine won’t work unless it’s heated. Let’s warm up our voices too.

 

6 Vocal Warm Ups (please refer to video)

Lift one’s arms to breathe deeply and exhale : ahhh

Vibrate lips : Ba, Ba, Ba,

Move your tongue: La with exaggerated “L” la, la, la,. Next, “R” Rrrr, like rolling tongue.

Siren sounds : Start with “wee” and end with “u”. “Wee” is high and “O” is low.

 

Ideas worth spreading through sounds

We talk to people who don’t listen in noisy environments and not very good environments. Regarding this, they have lectured on the cause and how to improve it from various aspects.

What would the world look like if we could speak to the audience consciously, in an environment that is appropriate for the purpose?More importantly, what happens to the world if we consciously create sound, consciously accept it, and design every environment consciously?

Sounds spread beautifully in the world, and mutual understanding will be a matter of course. And then ideas worth spreading will arise.

 

summary

Reasons why someone doesn’t listen to your speaking / Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking : Why do you run into situations where you can’t be heard your words? That’s because we don’t have the necessary habits to have our stories heard, and we’re in vicious circles. It is called Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking, and the seven are as follows.

Gossip : Speak ill of those who are not there. Five minutes after hearing the bad word, the one who was saying the bad word speaks of us, and the bad rumors and the bad words create vicious circles.

Judging : To be the target of criticism and to be ruined. When people are criticized negatively, it makes them uncomfortable to listen to what you say.

Negativity : Turn backward. If the whole thing is negative about conversation, then communication won’t continue.

Complaining : Complaints only spread misfortunes and never bring warmth or light to the world.

Excuses : Many people only pass on the buck. They blame others and don’t take responsibility for their actions. They can’t bear to listen to such a person.

Embroidery and Exaggeration : This sometimes degrades words. It’s like Oucking owesome” or “he is Osshole”. Naturally, this exaggeration leads to lies, and eventually, if it’s all lies, nobody listens.

Dogmatism : This is a mix of facts and opinions. If you mix these two up, everyone won’t hear anything. Even if someone claims one’s opinion as if it were true, it’s not something everyone could hear.

 

HAIL : There are four strong foundations on which we should stand in order to empower our story and change the world, and four acronyms will be “HAIL”. The meaning is as follows.

Honesty / be clear and straight : Be honest and clear

Authenticity / be yourself : Be as you are

Integrity / be your word : Be yourself and do what you said and be yourself to be trusted

Love / wish them well: love for everyone’s happiness, not romantic. There are two reasons for love.

Absolute honesty isn’t everything. For example, “Wow, you look terrible this morning.” you don’t need this honesty.
If you soften it with love, honesty will be wonderful. And if you really wish someone’s happiness, it will be difficult to criticize them. The way you communicate along with the content is important.

 

6 tips to getting people to listen to

Register : Changing your voice position will change your impression significantly. You can change where you speak from your nose, throat and chest, but especially from your chest, your voice becomes low and your words become heavy, deep and authoritative.

Timbre : The tone is the texture of your voice. According to one study, people prefer rich, smooth, and warm voices like hot chocolate.

Prosody : Meta-language that adds meaning to intonation and words, and that’s the real pleasure of conversation. everyone dosen’t feel inclined to hear when spoken in monotone rhythm.

Pace : Speaking fast feels like very excited. On the other hand, if you speak slowly, you can emphasize it. Ultimately, it’s a well-known silence. There is so much power in silence that you don’t have to rush to fill in between.

Pitch : Emotional highs are expressed in tones and tempo, but in fact, tones alone are possible and the same sentence that changes tones has slightly different meanings.

Volume : Your volume can make your voice feel excited. Or you can get attention by speaking very quietly. Some people talk too loud, but let’s avoid it.It’s called “sobcasting” and it’s just that they’re insensitive to their own sounds.

 

These voices can be acquired through training. : You will be able to gain the voice through training. Let’s find a voice trainer. You can improve your voice quality by breathing, posture and practice. These things can also be useful when you communicate something important, such as when you’re talking on stage, or when you’re proposing to marry, when you’re negotiating a pay raise or making a speech at a wedding.

 

6 Vocal Warm Ups (Please refer to video)

Lift one’s arms to breathe deeply and exhale : ahhh

Vibrate lips : Ba, Ba, Ba,

Move your tongue: La with exaggerated “L” la, la, la,. Next, “R” Rrrr, like rolling tongue.

Siren sounds : Start with “wee” and end with “u”. “Wee” is high and “O” is low.

 

Ideas worth spreading through sound : If we consciously create sound, consciously accept it, and design every environment consciously, sound sounds beautifully in the world, and mutual understanding will be a matter of course. And then we get ideas worth spreading.

 

In the end

To have you listen to your story, so do your story, but first of all, what kind of vicious circle you are in (Seven Deadly Sins of Speaking), what kind of consciousness you must have the next time you speak (HAIL : to greet or acclaim enthusiastically) and finally, practical tips for getting people to listen to you (6 tips to getting people to listen to) and its preparatory exercises (please refer to video) and a lot of content!(◎_◎;)

If that’s enough information in such a short time, it could be a fee-charging content d( ̄  ̄)! This video is a practical skill that can be incorporated into daily life immediately, so I hope you will understand it repeatedly( ^∀^). Everyone, take care today also!!

 

Then, bye bye (@^^)/~~~

 

 

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